Diaries

    Extracts from Wayne Visser’s private diaries and letters, 1990–2025: travels, encounters with nature and reflections on life.

    Names of people in Wayne’s personal life are shown as [name]. “[…]” marks text left out within an entry.

    139 diaries

    Ghana, 2025

    7 September 2025

    Back from Ghana and on my way to Porto today. After arriving in Accra on Friday evening, we visited the Saturday street markets, which were…

    Ghana · Africa

    Mauritius, 2025

    15 May 2025

    [Name] and I arrived in Mauritius on Tuesday morning. We are staying until Sunday at Villa Harmonie on the small peninsula Îlot Fortier near Black…

    Mauritius · Africa

    Kosovo, 2024

    23 June 2024

    Spending time at our Koshutan Mountain Cabin, with its spectacular views and surround-sound bird song. The wild flowers in the mountains – and on our…

    Kosovo · Europe

    India, 2024

    3 April 2024

    8 am. We are on the Gatimaan Express train at Nizamuddin railway station in New Delhi, awaiting the departure for Agra. We arrived from Heathrow…

    India · Asia

    Brazil, 2023

    2 October 2023

    [Name] and I arrived in São Paulo early yesterday morning. Over the next few days, we will be attending the RTRS (Roundtable on Responsible Soy)…

    Brazil · Americas

    New Zealand, 2022–2023

    31 December 2022

    After arriving at our hotel in Auckland (The Pullman), we walked a few blocks to find lunch, then returned for a swim before succumbing to…

    New Zealand · Oceania

    Uganda, 2022

    24 July 2022

    Day 1. 5.30 am start. We drove to Ziwa Rhino Sanctuary and went on a one-hour walking safari to track the rhinos. We were lucky…

    Uganda · Africa

    Thailand, 2019

    19 December 2019

    Last night, I went to the Siam Niramit theatrical show in Bangkok, a cultural extravaganza of elegant dancing, joyful music, spectacular costumes, creative sets and…

    Thailand · Asia

    South Africa, 2019

    20 June 2019

    It’s nearly sunset and [name] and I are sitting on the wooden deck in front of our safari tent in Phelwana Game Lodge, surrounded by…

    South Africa · Africa

    Croatia, 2018

    15 July 2018

    I am sitting at Mare’s Beach Bar, under a dappled shade, chilled Somersby cider (blueberry flavour) in hand, cicadas chirruping, Croatian music playing over the…

    Croatia · Europe

    Malaysia: Borneo, 2016

    23 October 2016

    Borneo, Malaysia. As night falls, the surrounding Borneo tropical rainforest has come alive with noise – most notably the trill of frogs and the rhythmic…

    Malaysia · Asia

    Albania, 2016

    27 July 2016

    Scrumptious lunch at Mrizi i Zanave, a sustainable, organic, slow-food restaurant in Albania. Arrived in Shkodër at sunset. Looking forward to sampling the traditional bread…

    Albania · Europe

    Kosovo, 2016

    23 July 2016

    I have woken to a breathtaking vista of pine forest covered mountains. A cock is crowing and a cow bell is clanging. We are staying…

    Kosovo · Europe

    Sri Lanka, 2015

    26 April 2015

    As I write from my study in Cambridge, with grey skies outside, still languishing from jetlag and a bout of flu, my reflections on the…

    Sri Lanka · Asia

    Russia, 2014

    17 November 2014

    On our way from a rainy London to an icy Moscow, where the temperatures will not rise above freezing for the duration of our visit…

    Russia · Europe

    Madagascar, 2014

    4 April 2014

    After watching swallows swooping and diving at Nairobi airport, we flew to Antananarivo, where we were met by our driver for the week. The drive…

    Madagascar · Africa

    Italy: Venice, 2013

    10 November 2013

    En route, Venice to London. I have spent a wonderful few days in the city of bridges and canals. On Thursday, I discovered an exhibition…

    Italy · Europe

    Colombia, 2013

    1 November 2013

    Barrancabermeja – I arrived here two days ago and felt, on stepping off the plane, that I had finally arrived in the tropics. Bogota, like…

    Colombia · Americas

    Russia, 2013

    4 August 2013

    I could never have imagined – back in 1989, when the crumbling of apartheid in South Africa was echoed by the fall of the Berlin…

    Russia · Europe

    Ecuador: Galápagos, 2011

    2 October 2011

    I’m on the plane at Guayaquil, in transit from Quito to Galapagos. Once again, I am struck by how fortunate I am. Bizarrely, this little…

    Ecuador · Americas

    USA, 2010

    15 September 2010

    I am on the train from Mountain View in Silicon Valley to San Francisco. Finally this gives me the chance to write again. I had…

    USA · Americas

    Panama, 2010

    15 August 2010

    Yesterday, I toured the Panama Canal, visiting both sets of locks on the Pacific ocean side. I suppose what I didn’t realise was how long…

    Panama · Americas

    Costa Rica, 2010

    15 August 2010

    I am on the bus, having just crossed the border into Costa Rica, a process that took about 3 hours. Apart from queuing in the…

    Costa Rica · Americas

    Brazil, 2010

    31 July 2010

    I am writing from the botanical gardens in Rio. They are a real oasis of green and shade. I walked this morning from the hostel…

    Brazil · Americas

    Argentina, 2010

    12 July 2010

    I’m quite settled in at the hostel now. Yesterday, I walked for 4 or 5 hours around the city. It is a massive city, quite…

    Argentina · Americas

    Chile, 2010

    26 June 2010

    I am staying in La Casa Roja hostel in Santiago. I am sitting on a little sofa near my room, beneath one of those ‘patio…

    Chile · Americas

    New Zealand, 2010

    15 June 2010

    Walking to the village, I catch a glimpse of the bay. It’s easy to see how people are lured to New Zealand – the slower…

    New Zealand · Oceania

    China, 2010

    30 May 2010

    There is an old tower near my hotel, which I sketched. In fact, it is all part of the Peking University campus, including my hotel.…

    China · Asia

    India, 2010

    21 April 2010

    Indians are either the worst or the best drivers in the world depending on your perspective. It all kind of flows though. Delivered a workshop…

    India · Asia

    Cambodia, 2010

    10 April 2010

    We've arrived in a baking Siem Reap. Already, I love it - more undeveloped than Koh Samui and Bangkok. My sister's wedding yesterday was beautiful.…

    Cambodia · Asia

    Thailand, 2010

    5 April 2010

    Arrived in Koh Samui, after a few days in Bangkok, spent with my parents. We took in the usual sights – a visit to the…

    Thailand · Asia

    Malaysia, 2010

    22 March 2010

    Where I happen to be today is in Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia – sitting in a Pizza Hut sipping ice tea (passion fruit flavour). My travels…

    Malaysia · Asia

    Singapore, 2010

    20 March 2010

    It is raining steadily, as I sit overlooking the Singapore River, with my hot tea and curly fries. Not exactly sightseeing weather, but as it…

    Singapore · Asia

    Australia, 2010

    18 February 2010

    Staying with friends in Sydney, I was treated not only to their wonderful hospitality, but also spectacular views across the bay. On my "tourist day"…

    Australia · Oceania

    Kenya, 2010

    2 February 2010

    Last week, I was hosted by Ufadhili Trust to deliver a 2 day workshop on CSR in Nairobi, Kenya. I captured my impressions on CSR…

    Kenya · Africa

    Turkey, 2010

    17 January 2010

    Istanbul didn’t quite live up to its promise of being ‘the most inspiring city in the world’ – perhaps because of the wet, chilly weather…

    Turkey · Europe

    Tunisia, 2009

    17 December 2009

    Sousse, Tunisia – This year, I am spending my birthday on African soil, in Sousse, Tunisia, with [name]. We arrived yesterday and made our way…

    Tunisia · Africa

    Georgia, 2009

    21 November 2009

    Spent a wonderful afternoon walking around the old town of Tbilisi. Bought a stunningly beautiful local painting of a woman playing violin.

    Georgia · Europe

    Armenia, 2009

    21 November 2009

    Armenia also has a proud and long history, being the first country to be a state-declared Christian nation (in the 1st century AD I think).…

    Armenia · Europe

    Morocco, 2008

    12 December 2008

    En-route to Marrakesh – A welcome break from the drizzling mist of daily writing and the icy chill of winter stress. Another promise to myself…

    Morocco · Africa

    Mexico, 2008

    6 September 2008

    Well, I am back from my pyramids tour. We started by going to some Catholic basilica - supposedly the third most visited religious site after…

    Mexico · Americas

    China, 2008

    12 June 2008

    Sometimes, my life seems surreal, and perhaps no more so than now, having visited China, which has for so long drifted like a cloud across…

    China · Asia

    Guatemala, 2007

    7 December 2007

    Travelling to a new country, and soaking up the sights and sounds of a different culture, gives me a real high. It has something to…

    Guatemala · Americas

    Botswana, 2007

    30 August 2007

    Okavango Delta – This is serenity; this is bliss. Lying in the shade of a copse of African trees, a gentle breeze blowing, birds calling.…

    Botswana · Africa

    Zimbabwe, 2007

    30 August 2007

    Returning to Vic Falls was like coming home, finding my place of rest. My adrenaline-filled day of madness there – white-water rafting, bungi-jumping and microlighting…

    Zimbabwe · Africa

    Ghana, 2006

    20 May 2006

    Back to Africa. My first trip to West Africa. I’m interested to see if it feels the same or different to other parts of Africa.…

    Ghana · Africa

    Tanzania, 2005

    23 April 2005

    I took the opportunity of being in Tanzania for the first time to do some sightseeing. The conference was held in Dar es Salaam, a…

    Tanzania · Africa

    Egypt, 2001

    29 September 2001

    I went to Egypt looking for stimulation, perhaps even inspiration. I was not disappointed. Cairo was less chaotic and crowded than I had psyched myself…

    Egypt · Africa

    Portugal, 1999

    24 September 1999

    Porto, Portugal – Today, I am at the world’s heart of Port wine-making. As I glance out of my youth hostel dormitory window, I see…

    Portugal · Europe

    Norway, 1998

    11 September 1998

    SA 323 Cape Town to London: In flight above the Great Continent … a pause to breathe deeply, rejuvenate, reflect. My work, once again, has…

    Norway · Europe

    Ireland, 1996

    12 May 1996

    Aran Island. As I sit here on a stone bench out the back of the Lodge, sun caressing my body and playing hide and seek…

    Ireland · Europe

    Zimbabwe, 1994

    1 May 1994

    Oh, the privilege of living on this great continent - Africa! Never before was this realisation brought more sharply into focus than after returning from…

    Zimbabwe · Africa

    Japan, 1990

    5 September 1990

    I woke up with a gentle breeze on my face, and for a moment I was not sure where I was. My room had reed…

    Japan · Asia

    Talking drums and strangler figs

    7 September 2025

    Ghana: Aburi. The visit to a cacao farm was fascinating, showing us how cacao is grown, the fruit harvested, and the beans fermented and dried.…

    Trees & Forests

    Saving the Mauritius kestrel

    15 May 2025

    Mauritius. [Name] and I arrived in Mauritius on Tuesday morning. We are staying until Sunday at Villa Harmonie on the small peninsula Îlot Fortier near…

    Trees & Forests

    A 130-million-year-old rainforest

    28 July 2017

    Malaysia: Taman Negara. Wednesday was a sightseeing day for us. We left at 5.30 am and drove about 4 hours to Taman Negara, a 130…

    Trees & Forests

    Sounds of the Borneo night

    23 October 2016

    Malaysia: Borneo. While it is always disturbing to see rainforest being cleared, it is not old growth, virgin forest (i.e. it has been logged numerous…

    Trees & Forests

    Circles in a forest

    10 February 2013

    South Africa: Garden Route. It is always good to be back in South Africa, like coming home – and all the more so in Cape…

    Trees & Forests

    Forests as soul places

    8 August 2008

    Canada: Vancouver. I started in Vancouver, where I interviewed Joel Bakan (author of The Corporation). I ended up having lunch and a walk along the…

    Trees & Forests

    A tree for the millennium

    1 January 2000

    South Africa: Cape Town. Towards sunset, we ceremonially dedicated a Millennium Tree, chosen to symbolise the “tree of life” and planted as a gift to…

    Trees & Forests

    The Ecological Shrine

    2 April 1999

    South Africa: Hogsback. The enchantment of this forested hilltop community takes only a short while to unveil itself. This morning, as we drove from East…

    Trees & Forests

    Tigers of Ranthambore

    8 April 2024

    India: Ranthambore. Our safari drive in Ranthambore National Park on Friday afternoon (5th) took place in sight of the eponymous hilltop fort, which encloses 102…

    Wildlife

    Rhinos, chimps and gorillas

    24 July 2022

    Uganda. Day 1. 5.30 am start. We drove to Ziwa Rhino Sanctuary and went on a one-hour walking safari to track the rhinos. We were…

    Wildlife

    Two million bats at sunset

    24 December 2019

    Thailand: Khao Yai. We did an overnight trip to Khao Yai national forest park, taking a surprisingly comfortable, air-conditioned train to Pak Chong. Our package…

    Wildlife

    Hippos at sunset

    20 June 2019

    South Africa: Phelwana. It’s nearly sunset and [name] and I are sitting on the wooden deck in front of our safari tent in Phelwana Game…

    Wildlife

    Hippos, nyala and bush babies

    26 June 2016

    South Africa: KwaZulu-Natal. On Thursday 23 June we flew to Durban where we met Mom and Dad and drove to our eco-lodge near Hluhluwe. It…

    Wildlife

    Walking with lions

    25 January 2016

    South Africa: Western Cape. As I write, I am seated at a beautiful rough wooden table, in a Bush Villa at Botlierskop in the Western…

    Wildlife

    Singing lemurs and baobabs

    4 April 2014

    Madagascar. This morning we woke late (9 am) and went to meet our guide at the National Park. He took us to one of the…

    Wildlife

    From doing to being

    3 October 2011

    Ecuador: Galápagos. A day of sun, surf & snorkelling off one of the newest Galapagos islands. Climbed my 1st volcano & saw my 1st sting…

    Wildlife

    Ostriches, elephants and lion cubs

    28 August 2011

    South Africa: Western and Eastern Cape. On our second day in Cape Town, we went up Signal Hill and Table Mountain (the weather was windy…

    Wildlife

    Koalas and the Kookaburra Cottage

    2 February 2011

    Australia: Great Ocean Road. Amazing trip down the coast. Swam in the sea, sunrise on the beach; even saw koala bears in the wild &…

    Wildlife

    This is serenity

    30 August 2007

    Botswana: Okavango Delta. This is serenity; this is bliss. Lying in the shade of a copse of African trees, a gentle breeze blowing, birds calling.…

    Wildlife

    Two Egyptian geese

    27 June 1997

    South Africa: Johannesburg. Thoughts for the day, inspired by a leisurely visit to Zoo Lake park in Johannesburg: I have been focussing too much on…

    Wildlife

    Can wildlife be managed?

    24 April 1990

    Zimbabwe. Well, here I am aboard the Trans-Karoo on my way home after 2 weeks away. I’ve been in Zimbabwe attending an AIESEC environmental conference…

    Wildlife

    Making a garden for wildlife

    18 August 2019

    England: Norfolk. We also discovered Thetford Garden Centre. Inspired, yesterday we spent most of the day gardening: trimming the beech hedge, pruning bushes along the…

    Gardens & Home Ground

    Super-trees and vertical gardens

    29 August 2015

    Singapore: Gardens by the Bay. In the evening, we visited the Gardens by the Bay, including their Flower and Cloud Forest bio-domes – with beautiful…

    Gardens & Home Ground

    Herb gardens and framed views

    1 July 2005

    England. Apart from the sport, we did get out one weekend to visit The Herb Garden at Hardstoft in Derbyshire, a truly delightful little place.…

    Gardens & Home Ground

    Spring on campus

    12 April 2003

    England: Nottingham. Spring is springing here. We’ve had a month of daffodils and crocuses, and now the tulips are starting to blossom. It is such…

    Gardens & Home Ground

    The Great Dance

    1 October 1995

    Scotland: Lauriston Hall. Having spent 2 days here, Lauriston Hall seems to be a most fine example of sustainable community. The 30 or so residents…

    Gardens & Home Ground

    Birdsong at the cabin

    23 June 2024

    Kosovo. Spending time at our Koshutan Mountain Cabin, with its spectacular views and surround-sound bird song. The wild flowers in the mountains – and on…

    Mountains, Rivers & Landscapes

    Storm over the Great Highlands

    28 July 2016

    Albania: The Great Highlands. I am in a cosy 3-bed room, looking out on a gathering mist over pine-forested slopes. We are in a wooden…

    Mountains, Rivers & Landscapes

    Waking in the Cursed Mountains

    23 July 2016

    Kosovo: Rugova. I have woken to a breathtaking vista of pine forest covered mountains. A cock is crowing and a cow bell is clanging. We…

    Mountains, Rivers & Landscapes

    Scenery to fall in love with

    10 April 2015

    Kosovo: Accursed Mountains. Yesterday, we took a drive through the spectacular gorge of the Accursed mountains of Peja. It truly is scenery to fall in…

    Mountains, Rivers & Landscapes

    I have come home

    29 September 1996

    South Africa: The Karoo. Our drive back to Cape Town from Joburg was pleasant and somewhat like crossing the threshold to arriving back home. The…

    Mountains, Rivers & Landscapes

    Dolphins and a sperm whale

    12 January 2023

    New Zealand. I had hoped to be able to write about swimming with wild dolphins, but it didn’t quite work out. Cyclone Hale has been…

    Sea, Sky & Seasons

    Seasons in Rugova

    13 May 2021

    Kosovo: Rugova. Eid. Scenic drive across the Dukagjini plains, stopping to photograph a wild field of crimson clover, with a late lunch at Trofta e…

    Sea, Sky & Seasons

    The Tsitsikamma coast

    12 February 2014

    South Africa: Swellendam. In the afternoon, we drove across to Bontebok National Park, where we swam in the river. The water was warm and the…

    Sea, Sky & Seasons

    Floating in a salty sea

    21 July 2013

    Greece: Corfu. The island is much greener and more mountainous than I expected. Our villa is about 750 metres up a steep winding road from…

    Sea, Sky & Seasons

    Why, what and how

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2022

    Finding a purpose for your work is important (Handy calls it your “golden seed”; something you can nurture and grow that is aligned to your…

    Doesn’t everyone want to be happy?

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2020

    Superficially, when we wish someone a happy birthday, it would seem that we are wishing them to be happy on that particular day, which is…

    Extended consciousness

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2018

    I am already convinced by the scientific evidence of extended consciousness, including abilities like telepathy, precognition and remote viewing, which has been capably synthesised by…

    Not to worry so much

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2017

    When I started university, fresh out of school, 17 and living away from home for the first time, I was in the midst of seismic…

    A tug-of-war with myself

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2016

    I remember having that tug-of-war with myself; in fact, it still continues. On the one side, I am pulled by unseen forces that search for…

    Jung and the search for meaning

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2015

    It was Jung who came up with ideas like the collective unconscious (a kind of invisible connected consciousness, a bit like the digital cloud), archetypes…

    A positive attitude to life

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2015

    There is not only natural beauty here in Kosovo. There are also all the shadows and ghosts of the past; the ruined homes and memorials…

    Home is wherever we can be ourselves

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2015

    The other thing I’ve been thinking a lot about this week is the meaning of ‘home’. Where is home? This used to be a simple…

    A virtuous cycle

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2015

    This weekend has been a chance for deep, existential reflection. It began when I bought and started to read The Secret by Rhonda Byrne. The…

    The inescapable paradox of life

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2015

    Many a truth spoken in fiction. I think the reason so many people resonated with the Harry Potter story is because J.K. Rowling managed to…

    The urgency of now

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2015

    Recently I have had a few moments of serious existential crisis – a feeling of futility and meaninglessness; that nothing I (or anyone) might achieve…

    Truth never stands alone

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2010

    Truth is a vision of the whole in all its complexity, not a pedantic description of the parts in all their simplicity. Is a lie…

    The artists of our own reality

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2007

    What we call reality is simply what we are focused on at any given point in time and place. We place our picture of reality…

    What it means to be human

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 2005

    A book I read recently talks about how the speed of our natural (physical) evolution has not kept pace with socio-economic and ecological changes. The…

    The road I must walk

    Meaning, Purpose & Truth · 1989

    There comes a time upon your journey through life when you realise that the journey is indeed yours and nobody else’s; that no one else…

    Books that shaped my spirit

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2024

    I've decided to take up the Book Challenge on BlueSky. The instructions are as follows: Choose 20 books that have stayed with you or influenced…

    Christmas reflections, Part 1: Lights

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2023

    So, why do we put up Christmas lights? Of course, they are part of spreading “good cheer” and adding to the festive spirit of the…

    Christmas reflections, Part 2: Trees

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2023

    Decorating Christmas trees almost certainly has its roots in pagan traditions. For example, one element of the Roman festival of Saturnalia, predating Christianity by several…

    Christmas reflections, Part 3: Birth

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2023

    At face value, Christmas is a Christian celebration of the birth of Jesus. But I think it is so much more than this. The Christmas…

    Christmas reflections, Part 4: Gifts

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2023

    I often hear people complaining that buying presents at Christmas detracts from the real meaning of the celebration, although some Christians will make a tenuous…

    The cave temples of Dambulla

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2015

    We visited the ancient cave temples of Dambulla, which are adorned with Buddha sculptures large and small and paintings on the cave walls depicting the…

    Meaning from religion

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2010

    When I was growing up, I got a lot of pleasure from nature – especially hiking and camping – but my meaning in life came…

    China and the Tao

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2008

    Sometimes, my life seems surreal, and perhaps no more so than now, having visited China, which has for so long drifted like a cloud across…

    Hope for the flowers

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2000

    I led a service with the theme Hope for the Flowers, inspired by the amazing colourful little book of the same title, by Trina Paulus.…

    Experiments in time

    Spirit & the Sacred · 2001

    Today, I led the Unitarian service, with the theme “Experiments in Time”. I began my talk by pointing out why time was an appropriate topic…

    How the world changes

    Life, Death & Time · 2023

    There is merit in reflecting on how the world changes – and even more, how our personal world changes. There are three insights I’ve gained…

    Our moment of slow time

    Life, Death & Time · 2021

    What makes it hard, I suppose, is that we have been living through a period of slow time, when getting to the end of the…

    Coping with loss

    Life, Death & Time · 2018

    We had a friend die unexpectedly this year. It’s like being punched and winded, shocked with disbelief, then wanting to lash out in anger, but…

    Three anti-spells against death

    Life, Death & Time · 2018

    Life is suffering. And the root of suffering is attachment. At least, that’s what Buddhism teaches. I don’t fully accept that, but it’s a good…

    My reply to life’s impermanence

    Life, Death & Time · 2017

    In my own life, which has been filled with existential angst since I was 17, I have arrived at two answers to life’s impermanence. They…

    This too shall pass

    Life, Death & Time · 2015

    When the heart is full and the days are long, it is hard to imagine anything else. And yet, as night follows day and winter…

    In the eternal present

    Life, Death & Time · 2007

    We live in the eternal present. While I am alive, the present is all that is real. Reflections on the past and speculations about the…

    Millennium reflections, Part 1

    Life, Death & Time · 1999

    Naturally enough, as the year begins to ebb, my reflective mood rises like the tide. Somehow, the psycho-numerological effect of 2000 weaves its spell on…

    Millennium reflections, Part 2

    Life, Death & Time · 2001

    This New Year marks the true beginning of the third millennium, according to Arthur C Clarke in his book, Greetings Carbon-Based Bipeds. Unlike last new…

    How do we keep going?

    Wisdom for Living · 2025

    I’ve been reflecting on the question: How do we keep going (in the face of unbearable suffering and destruction in the world)? Answering less poetically…

    Content, not happy

    Wisdom for Living · 2025

    I prefer the word ‘content’, because I believe ‘happy’ is too much to hope for. Happy is a moment in time, just like ‘sad’ is.…

    The Stoics and the Tao

    Wisdom for Living · 2022

    I get more and more inspired by the Stoics. There are some commonalities with Taoism, but it has a more pragmatic view on how to…

    Stay true to the destination

    Wisdom for Living · 2018

    We all have our own concept of value – consciously or unconsciously – and this guides us in our life. It determines where we put…

    Redefining success

    Wisdom for Living · 2015

    Here’s what I’ve learned about success and achievement. First, the desire to achieve is human; in fact, it is one of the existential drives from…

    Letting go

    Wisdom for Living · 2015

    It is always the letting go – the leap of faith – that takes us on the paths of learning and adventure. Yet most people…

    Choice and consequence

    Wisdom for Living · 2007

    We always have a choice, and each choice always has consequences. This morning, I could take the shorter, more direct route to work, that takes…

    The gifts of illness

    Wisdom for Living · 2007

    Sickness is seldom a welcome visitor, but it does usually come bearing gifts. It asks us to slow down, to focus our energy, to be…

    Change starts with a dream

    Wisdom for Living · 2007

    Change starts with a dream, a fantasy of what the future could look like. We have to imagine the possibilities and try the alternative realities…

    From habit to skill

    Wisdom for Living · 2007

    Changing our life is all about changing our habits. I want to be a writer, so I am choosing to write something (anything, no matter…

    On marriage, Part 1: A house of love

    Love, Ethics & Hope · 2022

    One book I love is Rebecca Solnit’s A Field Guide to Getting Lost. That may sound like a strange book to be quoting from at…

    On marriage, Part 2: Going with the flow

    Love, Ethics & Hope · 2022

    The parable of the river creatures in Richard Bach’s Illusions, and the wisdom of letting go, is at the heart of Taoist philosophy, which I…

    On marriage, Part 3: What is love?

    Love, Ethics & Hope · 2022

    It all comes down to love – which is easy to say and hard to do. Love is such an enigma that it has puzzled…

    Love grows

    Love, Ethics & Hope · 2016

    When I was young, I found the ‘L’ word a bit scary, at least in terms of romantic love. With the possible exception of sex…

    On freedom

    Love, Ethics & Hope · 2011

    How do I define freedom? It is the ability to make choices about my life in a way that does not harm or disrespect others.…

    What business is for

    Love, Ethics & Hope · 1992

    Business organisations are social institutions and their prime function is to serve society. As such, their responsibilities should be:

    Love is understanding

    Love, Ethics & Hope · 1991

    Love should be at the very heart of our thinking, our decision making, and our actions; in fact, at the heart of our living and…

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    Uganda, 2022

    Travel Diaries

    Day 1. 5.30 am start. We drove to Ziwa Rhino Sanctuary and went on a one-hour walking safari to track the rhinos. We were lucky to find six together and spent half-an-hour observing them. The sanctuary currently has 33 rhinos and the numbers are increasing. Rhinos were poached to extinction in Uganda in 1983 and only reintroduced in 2005. To protect them, two armed guards stay with each group 24 hours a day. The rhinos are not electronically tagged, for fear that poachers might hack the system. They also give the surrounding villagers cattle grazing rights and a 20% share of tourist revenues. Besides acting as a disincentive for poaching, the cattle graze the taller grass and leave the shorter grass which rhinos prefer.

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