Attitude

Our attitude is the only thing over which we can have complete control. But how do we summon the will to respond to those who hurt us with love instead of hate, forgiveness instead of revenge, reconciliation instead of bitterness? Sometimes it means choosing not to say what we feel, not to express our anger directly, not to inflict the pain that we are experiencing. These are difficult choices to make; decisions that do not come naturally. They take mental resilience and emotional toughness. The reason to choose a positive, constructive attitude, even in the face of adversity and pain, is that it is ultimately better for us.

— Wayne Visser

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