Life in Transit

    I Wish She’d Stayed

    2012

    In Memoriam: Karen Weinberg

    She made me laugh – let’s start with that
    (The time she wore a witches’ hat)
    Her cheeky banter full of fun
    And, on my word, she loved to pun

    Enthralled by British comedies
    From Eddie Izzard to John Cleese
    Held captive by Austen’s tease
    (Young Darcy jellified her knees)

    And then there was that Stephen Fry
    (She’d have proposed, but she was shy)
    True, he is gay, but love is blind
    And she was smitten with his mind

    She lived for art and loved to sing
    Such colours in her offering
    The shadow of Matopos stones
    The glow of rusty vineyard tones

    Baryshnikov upon the wall
    Unfettered horses in the hall
    She saw the beauty, heard its tune
    She caught the light, lassoed the moon

    King Singers’ a capella hums
    Dusty stomps of tribal drums
    Her world aloft on violin strains
    Juluka flowing in her veins

    Soprano voices in the air
    Mama Mia’s songs of cheer
    The concert halls, the silver screen
    She soared the heights, touched the dream

    Her head was swirled with maths and stars
    Her memories stitched with faded scars
    She knew the dark, yet channelled light
    She felt earthbound, yet showed us flight

    She long ago left creed behind
    And saw all faiths as intertwined
    Her wisdom caught the ebb and flow
    Of New Age waves and Oprah’s show

    So deeply loved, and yet alone
    She found her peace, her bay view home
    Her friends and loved ones scattered wide
    She was the rock, we were the tide

    Just like a snowflake’s crystal maze
    Her beauty sparkled through our days
    And just as ice must melt and flow
    Back to the source – we must let go

    Our daughter, teacher, friend and sister
    How we loved her, how we miss her
    We will not let her vision fade
    Now she is gone – I wish she’d stayed

    — Wayne Visser