It’s not what you do –
    Not the mop on the floor
    Or the plaque on your door
    Not the pat on your back
    Or the plaudits you lack –
    It’s how what you do
    Makes you feel
    How you feel

    It’s not what you say –
    Not the tone of your voice
    Or the words of your choice
    Not the wisdom you spout
    Or the anger let out –
    It’s how what you say
    Makes me feel
    What I feel

    It’s not what you wear –
    Not the latest new fashion
    Or the colour of passion
    Not the shades of the season
    Or the fad beyond reason –
    It’s how what you wear
    Makes you feel
    How you feel

    It’s not where you go –
    Not the oceans you sail
    Or the summits you scale
    Not the lands that you reach
    Or the chasms you breach –
    It’s how where you go
    Makes you feel
    What you feel

    It’s not what you think –
    Not the bright new ideas
    Or the futures you fear
    Not the voice in your head
    Or the dreams left unsaid –
    It’s how what you think
    Makes you feel
    How you feel

    It’s not what you believe –
    Not the scripture you read
    Or the faith that you lead
    Not the god that you name
    Or the sins that you shame –
    It’s how what you believe
    Makes you feel
    What you feel

    It’s not what you give –
    Not the money or time
    Or the things left behind
    Not the temples of gold
    Or the stories you’ve told –
    It’s how what you give
    Makes us feel
    How we feel

    It’s not how you love –
    Not the roses and cards
    Or the prose from the bards
    Not the stars and the moon
    Or the lyrical tune –
    It’s how all your love
    Makes me feel
    What I feel

    — Wayne Visser