Icarus

    The Joining of Hands

    1998

    Marriage is like the joining of hands …
    Each enfolding the other
    A comfortable fit
    A voluntary embrace
    Yet always two hands
    Free to let go
    Able to individually express

    When two hands touch …
    Each senses the needs of the other
    And responds
    To affirm
    To compensate
    To share:

    The firm handshake of agreement
    The gentle squeeze of endorsement
    The steady grip of assurance
    The uplifting gesture of support

    The clenched fists of anger
    The desperate claws of pain
    The wringing clasp of anxiety
    The sweaty palms of guilt

    The loving caress of contentment
    The erotic brush of passion
    The mutual wave of recognition
    The silent fingertip touch of deep connection

    Marriage is like the joining of hands …
    Each enfolding the other
    A comfortable fit
    A voluntary embrace
    Yet always two hands
    Free to let go
    Able to individually express

    — Wayne Visser